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   <title>第一周工作</title>
   <description><![CDATA[&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 终于回家了，今天是我第一周上班后周末，前几天在仓促与彷徨中我被分到去新塘支行，离广州市中心很远的城镇，一切都还没准备好的时候我们就要去上岗了。<br /><br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 来到这个陌生的环境，我很快就熟悉习惯这里，这里的人不算很亲切，但还表示比较友好，相对于深圳来说还是有点欠缺的。这三天开始在看着做，后来被人叫去干很枯燥的东西，第一天加班到八点多，第二天十点多。真晕 ，我的宿舍还没收拾好，都没时...<!--sp--><div class="relpost"><br/><h3>随机文章：</h3><div><a href="/logs/17169918.html">又是樱花花开时</a> 2008-03-17</div><div><a href="/logs/16978710.html">我的英语口语老师</a> 2008-03-14</div><div><a href="/logs/14049099.html">岳麓山赏雪</a> 2008-01-17</div><div><a href="/logs/13298625.html">爱上咖啡的苦</a> 2008-01-04</div><div><a href="/logs/13023429.html">See you,2007;hello,2008</a> 2007-12-31</div></div><div class="addfav"><br />收藏到：<span class= "delicious"><a href="http://delicious.com/save?url=http%3A%2F%2Fliangwanna.blogbus.com%2Flogs%2F24564072.html&title=%E7%AC%AC%E4%B8%80%E5%91%A8%E5%B7%A5%E4%BD%9C">Del.icio.us</a></span></div><br /><br /><div class="sysmsg"><b><a href="http://www.blogbus.com" target="_blank">博客大巴，你的个人传媒早班车</a></b></div><br /><br />]]></description>
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   <pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2008 22:56:43 +0800</pubDate>
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   <description><![CDATA[<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <span style="font-size: 9.5pt; line-height: 160%"><font face="宋体">一号去报到之后才真正的感到自己完全脱离学校</font></span><span style="font-size: 9.5pt; line-height: 160%; font-family: Verdana">,</span><span style="font-size: 9.5pt; line-height: 160%"><font face="宋体">走入社会了。陌生的面孔，陌生的环境，陌生的生活方式，让我一时难以适应，连续几个晚上没有睡好了，感到很无助，很彷徨，前方模糊了</font></span><span style="font-size: 9.5pt; line-height: 160%; font-family: Verdana"> </span><font face="宋体"><span style="font-size: 9.5pt; line-height: 160%">，以后的路在何方，现在的工作是否适合自己，我自己是否喜欢这份工作，一连串的问题不断地在我的脑袋旋绕，更让我忐忑不安了。总想逃避现实，回到过去，回到那个天真无忧的大学生活。大学永远是一片乐土，自由，宽松，不去上课没什么，可是在公司迟到一分钟都有要罚钱；在学校懒懒散散，拖拖拉拉，作业永远都是在前一个晚上完成，然而公司里的工作是没完没了的，不允许有任何的拖拉和延迟。学校和公司就是不一样，不能用在学校的标准放在公司里，学校的效率和绩效永远达不到公司的要求。尽快把书生的意气脱离，使自己成为一个合格有效率能胜任工作的职业人。</span></font></p><p style="line-height: 160%"><span style="font-size: 9.5pt; line-height: 160%"><font face="宋体">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 逐渐大了，承受的压力和责任也多了，不能想小孩一样遇到什么困难就哭着鼻子依赖别人，告诉自己要更加的坚强，一颗坚强的心是不会被任何困难和挫折打倒的。困难和挫折对与一颗坚强的心只是一个挑战而已，挑战是帮助我们成长，使我们成为更强的人。我要坚强起来，热爱珍惜每一天，不管工作有多枯燥都要保持一种乐观的心态，即使工作并不是我所愿，但为了生活，为了家人，为了未来，更为了自己，好好工作，热爱工作，即使不热爱也要假装热爱，最后当有成绩了，一定会感谢目前所做的一起，因为自己没有浪费自己的青春，自己已经尽力了。我会努力做好的！！感谢中国银行给我这个岗位，感谢中国银行对我的信赖。</font></span></p><p style="line-height: 160%"><span style="font-size: 9.5pt; line-height: 160%"><font face="宋体">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 对于未来，更多的自信，更多的期待。</font></span></p><p>&nbsp;</p><!--sp--><div class="relpost"><br/><h3>随机文章：</h3><div><a href="/logs/10983927.html">11月23日-稳工的心路里程-我要签拉！！</a> 2007-11-23</div><div><a href="/logs/4998438.html">No Excuse</a> 2007-04-10</div><div><a href="/logs/4815510.html">不悔的选择</a> 2007-03-20</div><div><a href="/logs/4740570.html">登高有感</a> 2007-03-10</div><div><a href="/logs/4732885.html">让疯狂的人去疯狂吧~</a> 2007-03-09</div></div><div class="addfav"><br />收藏到：<span class= "delicious"><a href="http://delicious.com/save?url=http%3A%2F%2Fliangwanna.blogbus.com%2Flogs%2F24273267.html&title=%E8%BD%AC%E5%8F%98">Del.icio.us</a></span></div><br /><br /><div class="sysmsg"><b><a href="http://www.blogbus.com" target="_blank">博客大巴，你的个人传媒早班车</a></b></div><br /><br />]]></description>
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   <pubDate>Mon, 07 Jul 2008 15:01:31 +0800</pubDate>
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   <title>其实自己想要什么</title>
   <description><![CDATA[<p>&nbsp;论文终于完成了，一个月的努力没白费，虽然没有想象的那么完美，但还算满意吧。论文之后萌生一种空虚感，不知道自己下一步想干什么了。一直想着大家一起怎么狂欢，吃大餐，去旅游。</p><p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 昨天跟秋Y他们一起去玩了，从下午四点先去了一家西餐厅吃饭，然后在步行街逛了一下，吃口味虾，通宵唱K，今天早上才回来。很累很累，一宿没睡什么精神都没有。回来的时候他们都还没醒来，看着他们安静的睡，觉得可以睡真幸福，我开始自责，通宵不是在消耗身体，消耗自己的健康吗？通宵唱K之后没有满足感，自己究竟想要什么，什么才能自己真正的快乐。</p><p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 安安静静的，听听自己喜欢的歌曲，抓紧时间学学有兴趣的东西，让自己去体会，去领悟，去感受，去珍惜。这可能是我心中想要的吧！</p><p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 今天听着VITAS 的星星，生命中有很多无奈，错过的东西可能永远也挽回不了。有些东西就像星星一样永远也企及不了。</p><object classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000" codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0" width="450" height="350"><param name="width" value="450" /><param name="height" value="350" /><param name="src" value="http://player.youku.com/player.php/sid/XMTcyMDQ3ODQ=/v.swf" /><embed type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="450" height="350" src="http://player.youku.com/player.php/sid/XMTcyMDQ3ODQ=/v.swf"></embed></object>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <p>&nbsp;</p><!--sp--><div class="relpost"><br/><h3>随机文章：</h3><div><a href="/logs/17169918.html">又是樱花花开时</a> 2008-03-17</div><div><a href="/logs/16978710.html">我的英语口语老师</a> 2008-03-14</div><div><a href="/logs/14623983.html">四十小时逃难记---亲身经历五十年来最严重的雪灾</a> 2008-01-28</div><div><a href="/logs/13935063.html">雪场上的笑脸</a> 2008-01-15</div><div><a href="/logs/13859943.html">中国政法大学师生冲突事件之我见</a> 2008-01-14</div></div><div class="addfav"><br />收藏到：<span class= "delicious"><a href="http://delicious.com/save?url=http%3A%2F%2Fliangwanna.blogbus.com%2Flogs%2F22046961.html&title=%E5%85%B6%E5%AE%9E%E8%87%AA%E5%B7%B1%E6%83%B3%E8%A6%81%E4%BB%80%E4%B9%88">Del.icio.us</a></span></div><br /><br /><div class="sysmsg"><b><a href="http://www.blogbus.com" target="_blank">博客大巴，你的个人传媒早班车</a></b></div><br /><br />]]></description>
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   <pubDate>Sun, 01 Jun 2008 13:26:07 +0800</pubDate>
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   <title>A brave new world rises from the rubble  (from chinadaily.com)</title>
   <description><![CDATA[<div style="font-size: 9pt; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">By Qin Xiaoying (China Daily)<br />Updated: 2008-05-21 07:18</div><br /><div style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif"><p>My daughter belongs to the younger generation known as the &quot;post-1980 kids&quot;. A journalist, she went to the earthquake-hit areas in Sichuan a few days ago.</p><p>I will never forget the moment just before she boarded her flight at the airport. She never experienced a natural calamity of such magnitude in her young life until now or faced so stern a test of her mettle, which is why she could not help feeling somewhat nervous. As her parents we were worried just as naturally and, unlike when she went on previous reporting trips elsewhere, I saw her off at the airport this time.</p><p>It was time for boarding. She held my hands in hers and stared at me with teary eyes as if making sure her father's image was securely stored in her heart.</p><p align="right">&nbsp;</p><p>I have seen members of my family off so many times in my life that it usually feels like a daily chore, but the good-bye to my daughter this time will stay with me forever. Yes, every news report about the aftermath of the earthquake since it struck Wenchuan touched people's hearts, be it about sinkholes, damages, aftershocks, landslides, roads reopened only to be cut off again or how difficult it was to make airdrops ... but the most unforgettable of it all were perhaps the looks and expressions of kind Chinese people in the face of the catastrophe.</p><p>Inside Mianyang Stadium, Premier Wen Jiabao bent over to console a few children who had lost their parents. A little girl started crying. Standing next to the premier the secretary of the Sichuan provincial committee of the Communist Party of China, Liu Qibao, could not bear the sight and turned around to hide his tears.</p><p>Later, in a tent, Wen softly told a crying child, &quot;(I know) you are hungry. Don't cry. I'll have some milk and biscuits sent to you rightaway.&quot; Surprisingly, the starving boy soon stopped crying and gave a little nod in understanding. At that moment Wen looked more like a caring grandpa than the premier of the country.</p><p>A small team of People's Liberation Army solders came out of the mountains with their hands full. Some carried injured and soiled villagers on their backs, some others helped old men on canes and still others carried an immobilized person on a stretcher. Two young soldiers barely in their 20s each held a newborn baby in their arms - a pair of opposite-sex twins born amidst aftershocks. Their apparent inexperience in nursing notwithstanding, the young solders showed so much concern about the babies that their clumsiness only served to enhance their brotherly love for the newborns.</p><p>A policewoman, who had a newborn of her own to nurse at the moment, breastfed a newly-orphaned baby at a temporary shelter as if it was her own child. Her look, with the baby so peaceful in her bosom, reminds one of Virgin Mary and the Bodhisattva but above all the baby's own mother.</p><p>A group of policemen felt so helpless in front of a child trapped underneath a collapsed building because they dared not lift the broken concrete slabs lest they fell on him. They could do nothing except telling him help was on the way, with tears rolling down their faces. When they had to leave the scene the otherwise tough men walked away crying aloud in unbearable sadness and with a deep sense of guilt.</p><p>A young farmer-turned-worker squeezed his way to the front of a long queue to donate his blood at a collection center and told the staff members earnestly, not without a hint of embarrassment, &quot;I have no money and cannot go to the disaster area. The only thing I can offer is my blood.&quot;</p><p>At Nanjiao Airport in Mianyang, President Hu Jintao hurried down the boarding stairs and walked briskly up to Premier Wen, who was waiting for him there. The two top leaders of the nation stood face to face, holding hands firmly together, and said nothing for a good while, but their expression told of a profound understanding at a time of great challenges and the resolve to lead the nation through any adversity.</p><p>The massive earthquake in Sichuan once again illustrated how dangerous Mother Nature can be, but the scenes mentioned above showed the unstoppable heartbeat of the indomitable Chinese nation. The catastrophe will ultimately become an extraordinary asset of the Chinese people. It will tell the world: one that loves the people is a powerful military, one that cherishes life is a well-grounded state and one that embraces all living beings is a nation no force can beat.</p><p>In fact, since the moment the earthquake occurred we have seen not just the indescribable pain and suffering but infinite hope behind it as well. This hope can be found in the responses from the younger generation to this ultimate test of life and death. It can also be seen in the brisk steps of soldiers on their way to help the earthquake victims deep in the hazardous mountains; in the sweat-soaked backs of medical workers saving lives days on end; in the volunteers' ubiquitous presence in the disaster areas; in the numerous long queues everywhere in the country of people waiting to donate blood; and in the survivors' efforts to free others from the grip of death.</p><p>In the face of great sorrow following the great joy of the Olympic torch relay so closely this year, Chinese youths are coming out of their familiar shows of naivete and presenting a new face that bodes very well for the nation's future.</p><p>The author is a researcher with China Foundation for International and Strategic Studies</p><p align="right">(China Daily 05/21/2008 page10</p></div><!--sp--><div class="relpost"><br/><h3>随机文章：</h3><div><a href="/logs/19475196.html">请保持自己的清高(转)</a> 2008-04-21</div><div><a href="/logs/17973735.html">甩啦 甩啦 甩啦他 抛弃“罗曼司美化症”</a> 2008-03-31</div><div><a href="/logs/13759551.html">结婚到底对女人来说有什么好处？（转）</a> 2008-01-12</div><div><a href="/logs/13299468.html">寂寞咖啡苦</a> 2008-01-04</div><div><a href="/logs/13021278.html">爱情博弈分析</a> 2007-12-31</div></div><div class="addfav"><br />收藏到：<span class= "delicious"><a href="http://delicious.com/save?url=http%3A%2F%2Fliangwanna.blogbus.com%2Flogs%2F21323076.html&title=A+brave+new+world+rises+from+the+rubble++%28from+chinadaily.com%29">Del.icio.us</a></span></div><br /><br /><div class="sysmsg"><b><a href="http://www.blogbus.com" target="_blank">博客大巴，你的个人传媒早班车</a></b></div><br /><br />]]></description>
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   <pubDate>Wed, 21 May 2008 12:33:57 +0800</pubDate>
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   <description><![CDATA[<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 毕业最令人头疼的就是论文和答辩了，到目前为止我的论文还在提纲阶段，还被老师说平平淡淡，像白开水一样，连续几天的看资料，找资料的努力一点都不看好<img src="http://public.blogbus.com/biaoqing/daodao/48/6.gif" border="0" alt="" />，一下子被老师打入黑洞。slump in my chair ,want to do nothing~~</p><p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 好想去爬山，动动手脚，找人找不到一个，目标锁定在余大叔身上。约好四点半在学校门口等，好久没爬希望不要太丢脸~~走五分钟休息十分钟！以前我的记录！！呵呵。</p><!--sp--><div class="relpost"><br/><h3>随机文章：</h3><div><a href="/logs/20208030.html">五一的三天假</a> 2008-05-03</div><div><a href="/logs/16689117.html">悠长的假期</a> 2008-03-09</div><div><a href="/logs/15919839.html">澳门印象</a> 2008-02-24</div><div><a href="/logs/14623983.html">四十小时逃难记---亲身经历五十年来最严重的雪灾</a> 2008-01-28</div><div><a href="/logs/13859943.html">中国政法大学师生冲突事件之我见</a> 2008-01-14</div></div><div class="addfav"><br />收藏到：<span class= "delicious"><a href="http://delicious.com/save?url=http%3A%2F%2Fliangwanna.blogbus.com%2Flogs%2F20433003.html&title=%E4%B8%BA%E6%AF%95%E4%B8%9A%E8%80%8C%E5%8A%AA%E5%8A%9B">Del.icio.us</a></span></div><br /><br /><div class="sysmsg"><b><a href="http://www.blogbus.com" target="_blank">博客大巴，你的个人传媒早班车</a></b></div><br /><br />]]></description>
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   <pubDate>Wed, 07 May 2008 14:35:27 +0800</pubDate>
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   <description><![CDATA[<p align="center"><font face="'幼圆', sans-serif" size="3" color="#999999">有你在的冬天总下雪<br />我不知道冷就算再寒冷<br />春来了花开了你走了<br />我留在这里哪里也不去<br />可是我好爱你<br />想和你能永远<br />永远在一起<br />你在地球的另一面<br />我怎么告诉你<br />夏天的雨来了我看着<br />潮湿的草地好像走着你<br />我的心奇怪的伤心着<br />酸酸的眼睛看不到未来<br />but i'm fine i'm fine<br />and i'll try<br />try to forget you<br />i don't like<br />but i want try<br />but i'm fine i'm fine<br />and i'll try<br />try to forget you<br />i don't like<br />but i want try<br />深呼吸空气里有我们<br />爱情的味道可你闻不到<br />可你闻不到</font></p><!--sp--><div class="relpost"><br/><h3>随机文章：</h3><div><a href="/logs/17951928.html">有一种戒不掉的隐叫做（寂寞）</a> 2008-03-30</div><div><a href="/logs/14960283.html">奋斗</a> 2008-02-04</div><div><a href="/logs/13863231.html">《Adiemus》（阿迪穆斯）转</a> 2008-01-14</div><div><a href="/logs/12249450.html">Christmas in my heart</a> 2007-12-18</div><div><a href="/logs/10983927.html">11月23日-稳工的心路里程-我要签拉！！</a> 2007-11-23</div></div><div class="addfav"><br />收藏到：<span class= "delicious"><a href="http://delicious.com/save?url=http%3A%2F%2Fliangwanna.blogbus.com%2Flogs%2F20261262.html&title=i%27m+fine">Del.icio.us</a></span></div><br /><br /><div class="sysmsg"><b><a href="http://www.blogbus.com" target="_blank">博客大巴，你的个人传媒早班车</a></b></div><br /><br />]]></description>
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   <pubDate>Sun, 04 May 2008 19:56:34 +0800</pubDate>
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   <description><![CDATA[<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 上个月29白天回来了学校，大学生活只剩下两个月了，走在校道上都会不自觉的细细观察，曾经鄙视的地方现在欣赏她的可爱。脑袋还浮现着大一时跟她初次见面的场面，四年的光阴在这里慢慢地流淌，不经觉地已到了我们毕业的季节。毕业意味着各奔东西，不知道何年何月才能再共聚了。</p><p>&nbsp;&nbsp; 五一这几天都很忙似的，口口声声要写论文，但是总被人叫去游戏了。五一前一晚上杀人杀了一夜，差不多两多多才回来，五二白天去南郊公园烧烤，被熏得黑黑的，晚上回来去唱K，唱完K已经十一点了，还继续杀人，到凌晨一点多，今天下午去南校区见未来同事了，第一次见面。刚有接到宠物的电话了，说请我去吃可爱多。跟大家一起的时光真快乐，不舍得大家。</p><p>&nbsp;</p><!--sp--><div class="relpost"><br/><h3>随机文章：</h3><div><a href="/logs/19050396.html">家教的日子</a> 2008-04-14</div><div><a href="/logs/17169918.html">又是樱花花开时</a> 2008-03-17</div><div><a href="/logs/16689117.html">悠长的假期</a> 2008-03-09</div><div><a href="/logs/14623983.html">四十小时逃难记---亲身经历五十年来最严重的雪灾</a> 2008-01-28</div><div><a href="/logs/13298625.html">爱上咖啡的苦</a> 2008-01-04</div></div><div class="addfav"><br />收藏到：<span class= "delicious"><a href="http://delicious.com/save?url=http%3A%2F%2Fliangwanna.blogbus.com%2Flogs%2F20208030.html&title=%E4%BA%94%E4%B8%80%E7%9A%84%E4%B8%89%E5%A4%A9%E5%81%87">Del.icio.us</a></span></div><br /><br /><div class="sysmsg"><b><a href="http://www.blogbus.com" target="_blank">博客大巴，你的个人传媒早班车</a></b></div><br /><br />]]></description>
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   <pubDate>Sat, 03 May 2008 20:39:18 +0800</pubDate>
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   <description><![CDATA[<p>还记得吗<br />窗外那被月光染亮的海洋<br />你还记得吗<br />是爱让彼此把夜点亮<br />为何后来我们用沉默取代依赖<br />曾经朗朗星空<br />渐渐阴霾<br /><br />心碎离开<br />转身回到最初荒凉里等待<br />为了寂寞<br />是否找个人填心中空白<br />我们变成了世上<br /><font style="color: #e10900">最熟悉的陌生人</font><br />今后各自曲折<br />各自悲哀<br />只怪我们爱得那么汹涌<br />爱得那么深<br />于是梦醒了搁浅了沉默了挥手了<br />却回不了神<br />如果当初在交会时能忍住了<br />激动的灵魂<br />也许今夜我不会让自己在思念里<br />沉沦</p><p>萧亚轩的《最熟悉的陌生人》在电脑上播了一遍又一遍，我明白我的选择是对的，但是眼泪还不忍不住的流下来，不管怎么说，我也曾经付出了感情。那个声音好象还在我的耳边响起，那一句话伤透了我的心，想起那句话我的心还在颤抖，&ldquo;如果你不答应我就不再找你了&rdquo;。傻傻的我现在还在怀念着什么。做不了情人我们就做陌生人吧～～</p><!--sp--><div class="relpost"><br/><h3>随机文章：</h3><div><a href="/logs/24564072.html">第一周工作</a> 2008-07-11</div><div><a href="/logs/19050396.html">家教的日子</a> 2008-04-14</div><div><a href="/logs/15416094.html">谈天说地</a> 2008-02-15</div><div><a href="/logs/14623983.html">四十小时逃难记---亲身经历五十年来最严重的雪灾</a> 2008-01-28</div><div><a href="/logs/14049099.html">岳麓山赏雪</a> 2008-01-17</div></div><div class="addfav"><br />收藏到：<span class= "delicious"><a href="http://delicious.com/save?url=http%3A%2F%2Fliangwanna.blogbus.com%2Flogs%2F19475889.html&title=%E5%81%9A%E4%B8%8D%E4%BA%86%E6%83%85%E4%BA%BA%E5%B0%B1%E5%81%9A%E9%99%8C%E7%94%9F%E4%BA%BA%E5%90%A7">Del.icio.us</a></span></div><br /><br /><div class="sysmsg"><b><a href="http://www.blogbus.com" target="_blank">博客大巴，你的个人传媒早班车</a></b></div><br /><br />]]></description>
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   <pubDate>Mon, 21 Apr 2008 17:38:55 +0800</pubDate>
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   <description><![CDATA[每个人都有不同的价值观，而我想，价值观也是影响生活的。曾经看过一篇文章，是一个女人问自己28了还是处女是不是很让人觉得很是不可思议？回答则各有千秋。&nbsp;<br />　　<br />　　但是我想说的是或许我28岁也还会是处女。我告诫自己，&ldquo;越早偷吃禁果越早被饿死&rdquo;，一定要遵守婚前无性行为，要对自己的未来负责。而且我可以很自信的对我未来的老公说，你选对人了。我值得拥有你给我全部的爱，给我全部的幸福。<br />　　<br />　　人要理性的约束自己。我相信婚前我为了他拒绝...<!--sp--><div class="relpost"><br/><h3>随机文章：</h3><div><a href="/logs/21323076.html">A brave new world rises from the rubble  (from chinadaily.com)</a> 2008-05-21</div><div><a href="/logs/19296396.html">水瓶座的悲哀爱情</a> 2008-04-18</div><div><a href="/logs/17973735.html">甩啦 甩啦 甩啦他 抛弃“罗曼司美化症”</a> 2008-03-31</div><div><a href="/logs/14960283.html">奋斗</a> 2008-02-04</div><div><a href="/logs/13759551.html">结婚到底对女人来说有什么好处？（转）</a> 2008-01-12</div></div><div class="addfav"><br />收藏到：<span class= "delicious"><a href="http://delicious.com/save?url=http%3A%2F%2Fliangwanna.blogbus.com%2Flogs%2F19475196.html&title=%E8%AF%B7%E4%BF%9D%E6%8C%81%E8%87%AA%E5%B7%B1%E7%9A%84%E6%B8%85%E9%AB%98%28%E8%BD%AC%29">Del.icio.us</a></span></div><br /><br /><div class="sysmsg"><b><a href="http://www.blogbus.com" target="_blank">博客大巴，你的个人传媒早班车</a></b></div><br /><br />]]></description>
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   <pubDate>Mon, 21 Apr 2008 17:27:30 +0800</pubDate>
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   <description><![CDATA[<p>很多人都认为，水瓶座是很花心的。也有的星相解释，水瓶座不懂得什么是爱。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>事实上真的如此么？&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>几乎每个水瓶座的心底都有着一段刻骨铭心人间记忆，一个永远无法忘记的背影。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>那也许只是极其短暂的两情相悦，只是一种单恋，或只是一种只存在于虚幻空间。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>一切看起来是那么平静，那么和谐。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>没有惊天动地，没有海誓山盟，没有花前月下，没有浪漫，没有誓言，没有温度。水瓶座的理智和冷漠，注定了任何感情永无燃点。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>水瓶座不容易喜欢上一个人。有人说水瓶座对伴侣的要求太高，其实并非这样，水瓶座注重的是感觉。只是那么轻描淡写的一眼，那个人已经吸引了水瓶的所有注意力，从此目光便无法转移。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>用一秒钟爱上一个人，然后再付出一生去忘记，水瓶座就是这样的试验品。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>但几乎所有的水瓶都会否认在自己的身上发生一见钟情，因为一向自视清高，承认爱上一个人这钟事似乎是在侮辱自己的智商。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>更多的时候是因为，连自己都没发现已经爱上。水瓶座很多时候对于感情反应非常迟钝，迟钝到每次都是最后的知情者。有时容易出现弄不清自己的感觉，不清楚自己想做什么，觉得迷惘。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>在对方没有非常明确地表示感情时会退怯，觉得爱情是两厢情愿，不想勉强对方。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>显得很被动，忽冷忽热，犹豫不决，极其矛盾。在没有完全确定前，决不轻易付出感情，因为怕失去。也许是缺乏安全感，也许是对自己的保护，也可以算作是一种自私。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>一般水瓶座的好朋友都是经过很长世间的考察的，不仅仅是几年，而是十几年。一旦被水瓶座当作好朋友的，会赴汤蹈火掏心掏肺。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>在公车上，街边，商场，水瓶老是认错人。在茫茫人海中，始终在寻找一个熟悉的身影，直到产生幻觉。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>这一刻，水瓶座突然很想痛哭流涕，因为突然发现自己几近疯狂的爱上一个人，失去了理智，失去了自我。这种突如其来的感觉，很恐惧，很无助。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>水瓶座不喜欢这种感觉，因为不知该如何面对。要让水瓶座主动去追逐，是件异常困难的事，在水瓶座的世界里无法承受拒绝，就是这么脆弱，无论表面上看来是多么的坚强。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>水瓶座在人前总是一幅无忧无虑没心没肝的样子，不想别人看见自己的悲伤，那样会有不安全的感觉，总是在无人的地方暗自落泪。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>算了，还是放在心里吧。既不用尴尬的表白然后遭到拒绝，又不会相爱容易相处难的惨烈分手。这样很好，没人看出来，不至于太没面子。可以继续貌似潇洒。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>但是，不同了。尽管水瓶座装着多么不在乎，看都不看一眼。可是对方说的每句话都从耳朵进去，没见出来。对方提的任何过分的要求，水瓶座统统照单全收精心尽力，决对不会有半个不字。完全成为一个爱情的奴隶，脸上还装酷无表情，整个死要面子活受罪。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>这种情况下，如果对方使点阴谋诡计，刻意疏远避而不见或是视而不见，电话不接或是哼哈敷衍等等，水瓶会给整疯了，开始会想是什么自己地方做错了，说错话了，然后拉下面子主动讨好试探。不用多，碰壁两次，水瓶座就会有自知之明了，不会再去想是为什么会这样，也不想知道了。心里会想，原来是对方讨厌自己，不想见到自己。明白之后，就是绝对的安静了。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>这还没完，过了一段日子。对方如果突然又改变态度，水瓶座竟然能既往不咎问也不问，殷勤依旧，完全没有尊严可谈。只要能和对方开心的在一起，过去不重要，未来也不重要，面子不重要，金钱不重要，时间不重要，自己也不重要。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>天平失衡，感情重重的压在心底，自己却飘在了半空。太在乎对方，迷失了自我，幸福也变得虚无。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>自己都不爱，谁还会珍惜。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>水瓶座一旦付出，便是彻底，不可收回。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>感情投入的越多越是伤的重。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>最擅长的是难为自己。不想对方难过，只好让自己难过。总是认为自己有超乎寻常的承受力，把自己想得太坚强，而把别人想得太脆弱。不知道，受伤的其实是自己，只是不知道如何表现出来。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>爱，这个字对水瓶座来说，太沉重珍贵了，无法用语言诠释。一旦说出口，犹如远古的文物，被发掘出土暴露于空气中，变得面目全非，失去本来的价值。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>所以，不轻易说。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>只需一次，水瓶座便把一生的精力耗尽，只因执著，便落得伤痕累累。那段感情如强酸腐蚀着那颗麻木的心，穿了一个洞，再也无法弥补。时间是世界上最有力的矬子，把空洞的毛边渐渐抚平，不再搁人。每当寒风吹过，犹闻隐约凄凉的萧萧声，似挽歌。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>只需一次，水瓶座便不再幻想，于是狠狠将自己摔碎，拒绝熔化拼凑。因为怕熔了记忆，怕熔了那个远远的背影，怕熔了自己千年的期盼。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>之后，水瓶座依然谈笑风生，依然开朗豁达，继续着一段接一段的新感情，重复着一切，因为无法承受寂寞。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>人们都说水瓶花心，见一个爱一个，水瓶座会哈哈一笑，说&ldquo;哪有？冤啊！&rdquo;。其实心里在滴着血，脸上却得笑的灿烂，安慰自己&ldquo;我是谁啊！哪会那么弱呢！&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>有人说水瓶座太冷酷太自私，自以为了不起。可是谁又了解，水瓶座的心，容量很小，只能有一个，且不具修改性。除了那个人，其他所有自动归为一种程序。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>因为无法虚伪，所以甜言蜜语都吝啬给予。因为天真，所以至死之前仍在等待。因为没有勇气，所以眼睁睁放手真爱无能为力。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>当看到一个瓶子在疯狂地快乐或悲伤时，请千万不要被迷惑，水瓶总是不由自主地交错操纵着快乐与悲伤。其实并不像看到的那么快乐，同样的，也不像看到的那么悲伤。只是悲伤时，喜欢带上快乐的面具，而当水瓶快乐时，悲伤又不肯轻易放过。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>只有真正懂得水瓶座的人，才能看见眼底那一缕似有似无的哀伤，才能明白是什么让水瓶如此的义无反顾，是什么让水瓶变得如此忽冷忽热捉摸不定，才能体会水瓶的坚强只是竭力掩饰的脆弱。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>星相上说，水瓶座往往不被所爱的人珍惜。我想，是为什么呢？也许答案就在心中，只是水瓶座的本性不愿承认而已。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>水瓶座除了需要一个深爱自己包容一切的人以外，还需要一个心理医生。这话有道理，希望所有的看到此文的水瓶座兄弟姐妹们深刻体会。&nbsp;&nbsp; </p><p>这就是水瓶座可笑却笑不出的悲哀。 <br />&nbsp;</p><!--sp--><div class="relpost"><br/><h3>随机文章：</h3><div><a href="/logs/19475196.html">请保持自己的清高(转)</a> 2008-04-21</div><div><a href="/logs/17973735.html">甩啦 甩啦 甩啦他 抛弃“罗曼司美化症”</a> 2008-03-31</div><div><a href="/logs/17049090.html">我的同桌</a> 2008-03-15</div><div><a href="/logs/13759551.html">结婚到底对女人来说有什么好处？（转）</a> 2008-01-12</div><div><a href="/logs/13299468.html">寂寞咖啡苦</a> 2008-01-04</div></div><div class="addfav"><br />收藏到：<span class= "delicious"><a href="http://delicious.com/save?url=http%3A%2F%2Fliangwanna.blogbus.com%2Flogs%2F19296396.html&title=%E6%B0%B4%E7%93%B6%E5%BA%A7%E7%9A%84%E6%82%B2%E5%93%80%E7%88%B1%E6%83%85">Del.icio.us</a></span></div><br /><br /><div class="sysmsg"><b><a href="http://www.blogbus.com" target="_blank">博客大巴，你的个人传媒早班车</a></b></div><br /><br />]]></description>
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